How to Prepare for Your First Meeting with a Family Law Solicitor

Taking the first step to seek legal advice about a family matter can feel daunting but being prepared can help you make the most of your time with your solicitor and start your case on the right foot.

Whether you're coming to see us about divorce, separation from your partner, arrangements for your children, or another family issue, here are our top tips for getting ready for your first meeting.

1. Bring all relevant documents

   The more information we have upfront, the better we can advise you. Depending on your situation, useful documents might include:

   • Your marriage or civil partnership certificate
   • Any court orders you've already received
   • Information in respect of your finances and your partners if possible
   • Correspondence from the other party or their solicitor
   If you're not sure what's relevant don't worry, just bring along anything you think may help.

2. Write down key dates and facts

   It's easy to forget details when you're feeling emotional or under pressure. Take a little time beforehand to note down:

   • Important dates (e.g., date you began living together, date of marriage, date of separation, date contact broke down or date of purchase of family home)
   • Names and ages of children
   • Key events that have led you to seek advice
   • Any specific concerns or questions you already have
   This will help your solicitor understand your situation more quickly and clearly.

3. Think about your priorities

   What outcome are you hoping for? It may feel overwhelming at first, but even a rough idea of your goals will help your solicitor guide you toward the best solution. For example:

   • Are you looking to stay in the family home?
   • Do you want shared care of your children?
   • Are you concerned about maintenance or pension arrangements?
   We're here to help you explore your options but knowing what matters most to you is a good starting point.

4. Be honest

   Everything you share with your solicitor is confidential, and the more open you are, the better advice we can give you. Even if something feels difficult to talk about, it's important we know the full picture so we can protect your interests and give you the correct advice.

5. Don't worry if you're unsure

   Many people come to their first meeting unsure what to expect, and that's absolutely fine. Our job is to explain your options in clear, practical terms and support you through the process.

   We even offer a free 30-minute consultation, so you can get advice and ask questions with no pressure to commit. This can be in person or over the telephone.

   We also offer fixed fees, payment plans and in certain cases pay at the end schemes. These can be discussed with you during the appointment.

Why choose MBH?

At MBH, we know family law cases can be emotional and stressful. Our approachable team is here to listen, support you, and guide you toward the best possible outcome for you and your family.

If you'd like to book your free initial consultation with our family law team, call us or email us today.

mbh@wigansolicitors.com

01942 206060

www.wigansolicitors.com