Preparing for a Summer Co-Parenting Schedule

For separated or divorced parents, summer can be a time of joy, but also a time of added logistical challenges. School holidays bring longer breaks, travel plans, and changes to usual routines, all of which require careful planning when co-parenting. At MBH Solicitors, we often work with families to help navigate these arrangements as smoothly and amicably as possible.

Here are our top tips to help parents prepare for a stress-free summer:

Start the Conversation Early
The sooner you begin discussing summer plans, the better. This gives everyone, including your children, time to mentally and practically prepare. Whether it's splitting school holidays evenly, managing overlapping trips (obtaining your co-parents permission to take the children aboard and sharing plans early such as flight & hotel information usually decreases stress), or planning around work schedules, early communication is key.

Put the Child's Best Interests First
This might seem obvious, but it's easy to lose sight of when emotions run high. Try to plan summer schedules based on what will make your child feel happy, stable, and included. If your child is old enough, consider involving them in the discussion to help them feel heard and what they would like to happen i.e. do they want to see friends / football camps etc.

Be Clear and Specific
Ensure you discuss who is collecting and returning your child or any shared costs for summer camps. Once arrangements are agreed, write them down. This avoids confusion or misunderstandings later on. A shared calendar or parenting plan can be a great tool, and if you're already working with a solicitor, they can help formalise any agreements. Avoid sharing plans through the children, this leads to confusion and the children being involved in adult discussions.

Stay Flexible (Within Reason)
While consistency is important, life happens and delays, illnesses, or unexpected events can crop up. Being open to reasonable adjustments can help keep things cooperative and respectful.

Use a Legal Framework If Needed
If informal agreements aren't working, or you anticipate difficulties, mediation or a solicitor can help put clear legal arrangements in place. Court orders around child arrangements can include holiday contact, and we can support you in achieving a workable solution.

Our Free 30-Minute Consultation Can Help
At MBH Solicitors, we understand that no two families are the same. Our Family Law team is approachable, experienced, and here to help you find a practical, fair solution. If you're struggling to agree summer plans, we offer a free 30-minute consultation to talk through your options.

Need support with co-parenting arrangements?
Get in touch with our friendly Family Law team today - we're here to help you make this summer a little easier.